This is England by the way. In the US, trends may be different. Over here maybe 80% of big guys are under 25 or foreign! Also, the face plays a part here. My body is better than my face (in my opinion), thus I feel I am doing my self a disservice covering up. I have friends who have more classic good looking faces, (strong jawline etc) that don’t go to the gym and wear shirts and do well with women. Loads of variables here. I have been working recently in the financial sector of London, otherwise known as ‘the city’. Obviously this means wearing a suit everyday. It changes so much. I notice a lot more girls looking at me, I also feel a ton of a lot better about myself.

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And furthermore, as you say about t-shirts, when I’m wearing a suit and I see a guy in a t-shirt, I hate to say it but its almost laughable how shitty they look compared. Id say some t-shirts are ok, fairly tight fit ones, with no logos or garish colors. I sometimes wear a t shirt with a casual shirt not buttoned up on top. But yeah. T-shirts suck generally. Unless they are really smart ones. I generally try and look as smart as possible these days when going out. Its funny as I dont have much money to spend on clothes, so Ill just wear the smartest possible, ie some kind of shirt, decent jeans, and some kind of proper shoes, not trainers, and it helps a lot. Also, fuck trainers. They look like crap really. Shoes are probably the defining part that a women takes notice off as well. better to have some kind of formal shoes on then some nike crap.

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My hunch though, and again don’t hold me to this, is that past mid-20′s and also once you get into the really hot girls, the models/dancers/actresses/etc., the suit is going to be better. Girls in the 99th percentile meet guys with jacked arms all the time. They don’t meet a guy with style and swagger all the time. Well I would say the opposite may be true. If you’re in your early 20′s then many of your peers are big guys nowadays. If you are 30 + (I’m 30) then there are less guys who are regular gym goers. Partly a generational thing, partly because guys that age tend to start letting themselves go. This means in my opinion, that women that are say, 28-38 are very interested in guys that are muscular as the guys in their own age range generally are not. Add to this the ticking biological clock and women reaching their sexual peak factors.

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“This is why, for years, I have told guys who are broke, unemployed, living at home with mom/dad, have no career, or have no hobbies/friends, to get those in order first. If you’re a deadbeat, no amount of game is going to change that. No girl is going to give you much of a chance.” Mark, ironically though, this is the great thing about dressing well. You can create an image of success and status through dressing well even if your lifestyle isn’t all ‘there’. In the UK, the West Indian community in London seems to have this down to a t. They seem to all be better dressed on a whole then other guys generally, and I think the idea of at least dressing to look successful even if you aren’t is implemented by these guys. Ah yes. In the US we call these guys “30k millionaires.” Because they have shit day jobs, but spend all of their money (or max their credit cards) on nice clothes, a nice car, and go to expensive clubs. Fortunately, these guys typically lack and game at all, so it doesn’t buy them a whole lot. I mean, if you’re the type of guy who wastes all of his money pretending to be something you’re not, you have to imagine that you’re not going to be the most empathetic and confident guy when you meet girls.

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Point well taken, but it’s easier said than done, especially for younger guys these days. Particularly “career” and “your own place.” Are there any good resources on getting THAT shit together? Actually, it’s much easier, the younger you are. Family background aside, we all start out basically the same. It’s the choices and what we do in our lives, and if you’re forty and have slacked for you entire life, you’ll never catch up with those who spent their last forty years working on their dream career. But if you’re young, a lot less time has been going on, where the lives of you and your peers had the time to diverge, so the gap you have to bridge is much smaller. But what you actually want to do depends on your current situation. If you’re working on a decent career, but lack friends, work on getting a social circle. If you’re very social, but broke, work on your career.

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